Sunshine, Sprinklers, and Sleep

It’s that time of year—when kids come home lugging crates filled with binders, worn-out folders, and crumpled artwork. Parents everywhere are trying to figure out what to do with all of it. Should we toss it? Save it? Pretend we’ll organize it someday?

We’re also packing duffels for overnight camp, labeling socks, scrambling to find missing water bottles—or figuring out how we’re going to keep our kids happy, busy, and cool for the next few weeks. Maybe we’re heading to parks, turning on the sprinklers, or just watching them get gloriously soaked in their clothes.

For many of us, the school year just ended—or is about to end—and the transition into summer is very real.

But not everyone’s on the same timeline. Here in Canada and the U.S., many families are wrapping up the school year this week—cue the overflowing backpacks and emotional goodbyes. In Israel and much of Europe, school continues for another few weeks, with the year ending closer to July. And yes—some of my clients are actually preparing for winter, like my wonderful readers in Brazil, where the seasons are flipped and the rhythm is completely different.

Wherever you are in the world, the rhythm of life is shifting. And with it, so is our children’s sleep.

Let’s talk about that.

During the school year, routines tend to be more structured. Bedtimes are firmer (hopefully), mornings start early, and days are packed with school, homework, and activities. There’s a certain predictability to it—even if it feels like a race most days.

Then summer rolls in, and suddenly everything loosens. Dinner’s later. Bedtime stretches. It stays light well into the evening. The routine fades—and so does our grip on the usual nighttime schedule.

And you know what? That’s okay.

Yes, the change can feel messy. But it also brings real benefits—if we’re open to seeing them.

Let’s start with sunlight. One of the most powerful natural tools for healthy sleep is light exposure. When kids spend more time outside—running, biking, swimming, walking—they’re not just getting fresh air and exercise (which are great on their own). They’re supporting their internal sleep clocks. Sunlight helps regulate melatonin production, the hormone that tells the body it’s time to wind down. The more daylight they absorb during the day, the better their bodies are set up to rest at night.

Have you ever noticed that our kids—and even we, as adults—tend to need less sleep in the summer? Or that they often fall asleep within minutes of their heads hitting the pillow? That’s not a coincidence. More time outdoors, more natural light exposure, and more physical activity all combine to create deeper, more efficient sleep. They may not sleep as long—but the quality of that sleep often improves.

And here’s something that might feel uncomfortable for some of us: summer often invites us to give up some of the control we’re used to during the school year. Bedtimes may be later. Schedules looser. And that’s not a failure—it’s an opportunity. This season invites flexibility. It’s not about letting go of everything; it’s about tuning in. Listening. Responding. Trusting that our kids don’t need perfect conditions—they need connection and rhythm, even if it looks different than it did in March.

Summer also offers emotional recovery. After ten months of early mornings, packed schedules, and academic and social pressure, our kids need time to just be. To breathe. To wander. To play. To reconnect—with themselves and with us.

So while bedtimes might shift and routines might bend, that doesn’t mean we’ve lost control. It means we’re aligning with the season, and more importantly, with our kids’ real needs.

Wherever you are—ending school, in the middle of exams, or bundling up for cooler days—the invitation is the same: be flexible. Be present. And most of all, really listen. Not just to the clock or the rules you think you should follow—but to what your child truly needs right now.

Sleep still matters. But it’s about more than bedtime. It’s about how we spend our days. It’s the light, the movement, the connection, the calm. Summer has a different rhythm—and instead of fighting it, what if we leaned into it?

So here’s your gentle reminder: Appreciate the warmth if you’ve got it. Embrace the later evenings. Watch your kids run barefoot in the grass. Let them stay out just a little longer. Trust that this season, too, is supporting their bodies and minds in powerful ways.

Because sometimes, letting go of the schedule—just a little—is the very thing that helps them rest deeper, sleep better, and feel more whole.

So, as the seasons shift and routines change, what small changes can you make to truly listen to your child’s needs—and maybe even your own?